Bullying is an Unfortunate Part of Life
My research shows in order for
people to stop the PUSH,
each of us must start with an intolerance for bullying. Sadly,
bullying is in all human DNA and it makes humans feel pleasure and
power to bully.
The government defines bullying as...
behavior among school aged
children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The
behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time.
Bullying includes actions such as making threats, spreading rumors,
attacking someone physically or verbally, and excluding someone from a
group on purpose."
The governments definition is a very limited view of
bullying. Children of all ages bully. Adults bully each other and
bully students. Policemen bully citizens. I bully and so do you. The act of any aggression whether passive or in your face, is
Furthermore, the PUSH is more
than bullying it includes the use of subtle words, the sly turn of the
the passive turning away of the eyes.
It also disguises its self as
humor. The very act of kidding or joking with family or friends
is PUSHing. PUSHing is the way human establish their pecking
order, their societal structure. It is deadly, mean and vicious,
it is an unfortunate part of life that rewards the pusher and crushes the bullied.
Today, because of the need to establish larger pecking
orders, we are fed a steady diet of the PUSH, from TV
the Internet social scene. Facebook and Twitter are
mostly gossip about one's self or others and both have become the
vehicle for outright
PUSHing by the masses.
Research shows that seventy five percent of all
speech is gossip and people love to gossip. Gossip is the PUSH..
Television entertainment shows rely on the PUSH to get and
keep a large audience. We are fed the PUSH
we demand it and love the feeling that we get when we see or hear
or read about an attack on other people.
Why PUSH?Lions and tigers and bears have sharp claws and teeth. Cattle, deer and elk have sharp horns and hooves. Man has no organic defense but one....The PUSH.
Basically, the PUSH is man's way of protecting babies, so to insure the success of our species over the forces of extinction. You PUSH because the PUSH is your fang, your horn, your claw of protection.
The PUSH is old and like our appendix and wisdom teeth, it is no longer needed for human survival. Sadly, our brain does not know that the times have changed. It continues to wreck havoc on our family, our tribe and humanity.
Living the No PUSH Life
Can the PUSH be stopped? Yes, 65% of the PUSH can be controlled.
Learn more about the PUSH, follow my blog
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and third rings of life?
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- What was the first recorded PUSH?